Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

25 June 2014

Should we really blame the mother?

I was looking at a bunch of girls singing and dancing happily.
The smallest one is perhaps only one and a half year old and was struggling to catch up with the other 2 girls with her small but quick baby steps.

The father was asking the mother something.
I was right next to the mother, who look at the girls and asked her husband "but what about the girls?"
Our gaze were transfixed to those girls.
"I can't decide" the mother said.
"Well, you need to decide now" the father said.
The mother was scratching her head while the father just stand there and let her decide by herself.
 I had no intention to eavesdrop, and I don't understand what they were talking about.
All I remember is that those girls are so happy that it is contagious!

After those girls are out of my view, I went back to my phone, 'facebook-ing' , a hobby that I was not too addicted as Instagram, but I was so bored that I just need to read something.
And then I saw Lola's name -again. There were articles that tells us her basic salary is RM 15++ and the comments followed are mostly rude and disrespectful.
Suddenly the thin-skeleton-like-boy's image, who everyone is talking about, appear in my mind.
I sighed.
Why on earth that there are too many bad mouthed malaysians?
I am glad that most of us still have humanity that we were so damn angry when we saw an image of Muhammad Firdaus in a dirty room with a cropped t- shirt.
OK, I agree that I am also furious.
Well, who doesn't?

But I don't even have a child.
I only have a 'Pou' which I have raised half way, then it makes me annoyed when he makes a sound while I was doing rounds. "Oh crap, now everyone knows that my pou is hungry" *sigh*

My point is that I had never raise a child with my own hands.
I can imagine how hard it is for a single mother to raise her children.
Yes, it is wrong of her to lock that child and left him unkempt.
BUT LET US PUT OURSELVES IN HER SHOE FOR A MINUTE AND THINK.
Are we strong enough to handle a gifted child like that?
If ALLAH give us a mentally or physically handicap child, will you take care of the child with all your heart?
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If your answer is YES, then ALHAMDULILLAH :)
May our concern and humanity stays with us. AMIN. 

Anyway, after a few weeks, this issue will just dissolved. Those people who cursed will forget the whole t.hing and do nothing.
Just like we forgot that MH370 is still missing.
We also forgot that newspapers still haven't make an apology regarding their disrespectful article of my ex colleague who had passed away in Alor Gajah Hospital while on call.
(p.s. I remember him asking me why I was always mad at him. At that time I didn't know that he had a medical problem. I am sorry M***.)

Last but not least, I hope that the mother of three, Wardina, will reactivate her Instagram account again. I think she deactivate it just because she had mentioned that overseas government are more pro active in helping OKU's parents (which might be true).

Stop blaming each other, Malaysians. Focus on the problem, please.
Ask yourself, what can I do to help?

Let's make the world a better place, OK?
Now this is what not only doctor's can heal.



29 December 2012

Y.E.S. and yes!

hye!
semalam pergi dating dengan yad.
and i fell in love instantly with this cute 4 owls!
siap ada free gift bantal kuning dan pen  ^.^
comel kan, kan?
sebenarnya keempat2 burung hantu ini adalah 'hand cream'

lepas tu dapat free calendar yang sangat girlish

every item buy one free one in Etude House now..
oh, saya sangat suka YES (Year End Sale)!

balik rumah je, bagi mama yang warna kuning, Aizza ambil warna hijau, dan sy mestilah nak yang warna pink!
Alip golip sibuk nak jugak jadi dia ambil warna biru...
huhu..
ini gaya makcik rambut besar, kata Alip
oh ya, sekarang dah duduk dengan family memang best.
antaranya best sebab ada orang teman saya jogging dan main di playground di Stadium Tun Fatimah
kenapa Alip harus interframe gambar saya!! oh tidakkk!!!!
Alhamdulillah, my life is more organized and happy now.

kotak terakhir baru habis kemas malam tadi.. huhu~

and guess what?
Isnin ni list MO akan keluar!
oh, macam tak percaya dah nak habis housemanship! 
lepas ni kat manalah dokter Ainul yang berjam merah dan stetoskop merah 'tercampak' ye?
hopefully saya akan jadi MO OnG!
Aminnn~
 


26 October 2012

selamat hari raya!

hye!
selamat hari raya aidiladha kawan2!
macam biasa, saya tak perlu risau jalan jam nak balik kampung sebab parents saya datang rumah saya...
rindunye beraya masa arwah nenek ada...
hiks
 
aizza, me n si oren yg gojes!

 
maafkan kesengalan kami berdua


nak ambil gambar pun si kecik asyik kacau jeee

belum lagi kalau dia berlari2 satu rumah


semangat alip melompat sampai lupe tgk kamera!
alip golip budak gigi gongak!
habis sofa merahku kene lenyek. huhu.... (shutter speed too slow lah. haishs)
selamat landing
ooopsss!

Kalau tgk bananana barulah dia duduk diam! LOL

oklah..
nak gi makan rendang kerang yang mama masak lagi..
lalalala~

28 September 2012

Selamat hari lahir, mama

Who should I give my love to?  
My respect and my honor to?  
Who should I pay good mind to?  
After Allah And Rasulullah...
Comes your mother
Who next? 
Your mother  
Who next? 
Your mother  
And then your father



Selamat hari lahir Mama!!
Maaf kerana terlambat menyampaikan ucapan selamat hari ini.

aku terlalu leka dengan kerja dari awal pagi

walaupun aku tahu...

biarpun aku ada berpuluh pesakit di wad,

tapi aku hanya ada satu ibu.

yang seharusnya aku hargai lebih dari orang lain.

yang seharusnya aku utamakan lebih dari orang lain.

ni anak mama yang paling nakal. huhu ^^
tapi, hingga tengah hari, tiada apa- apa yang ku beri pada mama

Aku hanya memberikan kerisauan,

kebimbangan..kerinduan..

dan kekecewaan..

Maafkan aku, Mama....

Mama, Terima kasih atas semuanya yang kau berikan padaku..

Terima kasih kerana mendidikku..

Terima kasih kerana menyayangiku..

Terima kasih kerana mengajarku pelbagai ilmu..

Terima kasih kerana menjagaku saat aku sakit,

Terima kasih kerana menjahitkan baju untukku,

Terima kasih kerana memasak lauk kegemaranku..

Terima kasih kerana menyekolahkanku..

Terima kasih kerana menyediakan keperluanku..

Terima kasih kerana merinduiku...

Terima kasih kerana mendoakanku..

Walau aku banyak menyakitimu,

Walau aku banyak mengecewakanmu..

Walau aku memberi derita kepadamu..

Kau tetap menyayangiku,

dan memaafkan dosa-dosaku..

Selamat hari lahir mama..

Semoga Allah merahmatimu selalu,

Memberi hidayah dan petunjukNya kepadamu,

Semoga diberiNya kesihatan, kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat..

Semoga Allah mengampuni semua dosa-dosamu dan sentiasa mengasihanimu,

sebagaimana kau mengasihaniku sejak aku kecil,

Semoga Allah memberikan yang terbaik buatmu..

Di dunia dan akhirat.

Say Alhamdulillah  
Thank you Allah  
Thank you Allah For my mother.


p.s. this is a plagiat edited version from here. but i meant it all from my heart.

27 August 2012

syawal 2012

masa kecil2, bila sebut raya mesti fikir duit raya.
tidur pun dapat duit raya
sampul duit raya banyak2 tu jangan buang ye... kalau rajin boleh buat macam ni
tak lupa juga lemang,rendang, ketupat.

daging masak kicap mama yang sangat laku. kejap je habis!
i hate serunding. but this one mmg sedap
oh, ya, mane lengkap raya tanpa kuih raya!
most of this are made by mama and amie....
coklat yang ada kaki!!!!!

tapi sekarang ni,
bila giliran i pulak bg duit raya,
tercari2 erti syawal yang sebenar..

ada yg mengatakan bulan syawal ialah bulan meraikan kemenangan
kemenangan setelah berpuasa sebulan di bulan ramadhan
tapi kalau i nak puasa penuh sebulan susah la.
kene tunggu menopause dulu la kan, kan?

hehe..

btw tahun  ni warna tema adalah warna diraja.
sangat terang, okay.

sehari sebelum raya, lepas kerja je i terus pergi kampung mama kat sg siput 
(dkt2 dgn alor gajah je...)
bnyk bunga kertas cntik depan rumah nenek!

alip playing bubless
zaman sekarang ni susah nak cari tingkap macam ni, kan?

hari raya pertama seperti biasa setelah sembahyang raya, kami akan bermaaf maafan

setelah itu kami akan ke kubur arwah atuk yang ada kat dalam loji minyak petronas
van disediakan untuk keluarga ke kubur berkenaan
ini dulu kampung babah saya. tapi petronas beli tanah ni untuk dijadikan tempat memproses minyak

sulfur ni pun ikut warna tema kami ^^

walaupun hari raya kedua i dah kene kerja, tapi yang penting hari raya ketiga sebab ada kenduri kat rumah arwah atuk and nenek
 (kat belakang rumah i je ni... jalan kaki sahaja okay)
terkejut tengok sepupu2 i dah besar.
dah boleh harap tolong masak dan basuh pinggan...

keluarga arwah hj Ali dan Bedah dah semakin besar!
inilah cucu dan cicit mereka.....
beratur untuk dapat duit raya
pirul, bnyk x duit raye???
kuningnyeeeeeee ^^
babah dan adik beradik berbincang untuk majlis tahun depan


kalau ada arieff dah lengkap dah kami lima beradik...
xpelah.
InsyaALLAH tahun depan dia akan balik dari Ohio dan beraya bersama kami ^^
lagipun kan skype ada ^^


ape motif alip golip tunjuk makanan ikan? huuuu

habis sudah cerita i yg pnjg berjela nih (dan penuh dengan gambar)
rasanya tak telambat nak ucapkan selamat hari raya.
maaf zahir batin ye kawan2